St. Paul Thoughts

David Mullens • August 27, 2019

You open Facebook (or Instagram, Snapchat, or some other social media website) and see your friend having the time of her life! Perhaps she is on vacation, with family, or eating at a fancy restaurant. Then, it hits you. FOMO. "It would be great to be able to do that," you think.

You remember an event happening later in the week. You'd love to go, but if you go to that event, you'd have to leave a different event early, and get to another event late. Even though your day is full, you try to figure out how to squeeze the new event into your bulging schedule. FOMO begins.

Perhaps you find yourself at one activity and your mind begins wondering about a different one. Or, as your friend (or spouse) talks with you, your phone buzzes and you look down (for just a glance, of course) to make sure you aren't missing anything while your friend (or spouse) continues to talk. There's a momentary lapse as you are distracted by the notification. You hope your friend (or spouse) doesn't notice. FOMO keeps you from being fully attentive.

You and your family sit down to watch a movie together and you start wondering about what else might be happening. So, you take a look at Facebook, just a quick glance, of course, to keep up what is going on elsewhere. Thirty minutes later, you realized you missed the most important part of the movie and precious moments with your family. FOMO has taken hold of you, once again.

If you've ever found yourself wondering about what else was going on and what you might be missing, you've encountered FOMO. If you've ever been distracted, unable to enjoy the moment because your mind was elsewhere, you may have been hijacked by FOMO. defines FOMO as, "anxiety that an exciting or interesting event may currently be happening elsewhere, often aroused by posts seen on a social media website."

FOMO stands for the "fear of missing out" and is very real. It's always been around but seems to have escalated with social media. FOMO grows more troubling because, with increased options of how to spend our time, we begin wondering about what we miss. We fear that somewhere something is happening and we are not a part.

FOMO causes us to add one more activity to our busy days, squeezing as many moments into our minutes as possible. We add some activities and events to our calendar because we are afraid of missing out.

We don't have to follow the FOMO path though. Instead of FOMO, we can experience JOMO. What's JOMO? I thought JOMO was something I had discovered, but later found that others had experienced the wonders of JOMO as well.

JOMO stands for the "Joy Of Missing Out" and can serve to balance our lives, bringing joy, contentment, and peace.

The JOY of missing out? We want to experience life to the fullest and we believe missing out is the opposite. When I watch a basketball or football game, I don't want to miss anything! I want to see it all! Missing out seems anything but joyful.

But when I pause to think about FOMO, I have to ask myself, "What am I really missing out on?" A fantastic play? A touchdown?

There will be other plays. There will be other touchdowns. In the totality of life, missing a fantastic play, or even a game, or many games, really won't be that big of a deal. When I'm looking back over my life, I doubt I will ever regret missing those things.

The reality is, when I live by FOMO, I am missing out. I'm missing out on the moment I am in and that is where JOMO comes into play.

The JOY of missing out reminds us that joy comes from being present in the current moment. Joy does not come as we stuff our full schedules fuller still. Full schedules create distraction bringing tension and keeping the joy of the moment at bay

Beyond finding joy in the moment, we also find joy when we are mindful about what we choose NOT to do. We don't have to do everything. Rather, we must discern the right things to do. When we practice FOMO, we cultivate fear, disappointment, and regret (Fear is the first part of FOMO after all). When we practice JOMO, we cultivate joy, contentment, and peace.

JOMO is a choice. It's a choice to not allow FOMO to rule our lives. JOMO is being intentional and honest. JOMO encourages us to create space where we can breathe, grow, and find freedom. JOMO helps us create space where we can deeply connect with others because we aren't distracted and exhausted.

What are we really missing if we don't watch the next episode? Go to the party? Take on an extra activity? What are we missing if we stay in, spend time with people we love, and get the rest we need rather than heading out?

JOMO is when we find joy by choosing to miss out and the discovery that we aren't missing a thing.

May you experience the deep joy and peace of Jesus because you are choosing to spend some moments with Jesus!



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The World Is Waiting!
The World Is Waiting!

David Mullens • July 29, 2019

I'm happy (or embarrassed. I'm not exactly sure which) to announce that my wife and I have finished watching all 31 seasons of the amazing race. All told, we watched around 341 episodes of the show. Each show (without commercials) was about 40 minutes. That equates to about 13,640 minutes or 227 1/2 hours. Yikes!

When I think about all the time we spent watching, I'm sure we could have done a lot of other things. Nevertheless, I did try to at least learn some things from the show and over the past three months I've outlined some of the lessons I've learned.

Here's a recap:

  1. Nobody is Good at Everything (so it's good to have a team)
  2. Not Everything is Amazing (but life is Amazing!)
  3. The Joy of Now
  4. Match People with Skills (It's about working together)

For my last lesson, I'm going to refer to something Phil (the host) says at the beginning of the race. I don't remember if this is something he has said since Season 1 or not but I remember hearing it in most of the first season episodes.

After the teams are introduced and they are all poised to start the race he tells them, "The world is waiting..." I don't know if "The Amazing Race" is so popular in other countries that saying the WORLD is waiting is true, but I know that I am waiting and so are millions of other Americans. I'm not sure if the world is waiting for the amazing race. However, I do believe the world is waiting for something.

One of the hardest questions to answer seems simple . When I ask people "What do you want?" or "What do you want to happen?" they, at first, give an answer which seems like a good answer. After reflecting, they realize their first answer wasn't their best answer. On further reflection, they realize they really want something different, something deeper.

Sometimes what we say we want ends up being just a reflection of some deeper desire. We may say that we want our spouse to listen to us, or encourage us, or pay attention to us when what we really want is deeper connections and intimacy. We say we want something to be solved at work but we may really want a sense of peace in our place of employment. Maybe what we really want is a sense of peace in our lives!

My point is this: The world may say they know what they want or what they are waiting for, but I'm not sure of the world really knows.

For most of his life, St. Augustine believed he knew what he wanted. However, after he encountered Jesus, he realized, he was really waiting for him. He was waiting for Jesus and didn't even know it! Later he prayed, "Our hearts are restless until they rest in thee..."

The world, like St. Augustine, has a restless heart. St. Augustine, among others, discovered that Jesus brings rest to restless hearts.

John tells us that God loved the world so much that he sent his Son into the world so that those who believe would never die. At the deepest level, the world is waiting for Jesus. The world is waiting and searching for life, but doesn't realize that life and rest comes through Jesus. They are waiting for him and don't even know it. I sure didn't know I was waiting for Jesus until after I encountered Jesus. Then I knew I was waiting for him the whole time. He was what my heart most deeply desired, yet I was unaware.

Paul asked the question, "How can they know if they don't hear? How can they hear unless someone tells them? (Romans 10:4)" That's a great question. How can the world know if no one is telling them? How can the world know about life in Jesus if we don't tell them and show them?

Phil told the Amazing race teams that the world was waiting. I believe he is right. The world is waiting. Perhaps the world is really waiting for us to let them know about the wonderful Jesus we have encountered and are coming to know.

May you share your Jesus encounters with others!

Peace, David.

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Lesson 4: Working Together
Lesson 4: Working Together

David Mullens • June 26, 2019

Strengths / Weaknesses

Two months ago I started listing some of the lessons I’ve learned from the Amazing Race. The first lesson was, “Nobody is Good at Everything.” There have been some pretty amazing participants on the Amazing Race; Ph.Ds, Scholars, Doctors, Nurses, Military, Moms, Dads, grandparents, pastors, musicians and even a couple of homeless dancers. The diversity of the participants is impressive.

Some individuals were more talented than others. They were strong, smart, and able to do challenges quickly. However, even the best of the racers, at some point, would run into trouble and struggle because no one is good at everything. We all have strengths. We all have weaknesses.

The best teams were the ones who were able to match their skills and strengths with the task at hand. Sometimes teams weren’t’ able to do this because the task’s description (called Roadblocks on the Amazing Race) was vague, making it hard to know exactly what skills were needed. If the team was able to match the task with the strengths of the right teammate, that team would finish the task quickly and be able to continue the race.

We are A Team

As a community of faith, God has gathered us together like a team. The Apostle Paul referred to the community of faith as the body of Christ (see 1 Corinthians 12). He writes that just like a body, there are different parts of the Body of Christ. He observes that a body has two eyes, a nose, a mouth, and other parts. The body is not just one big mouth (even though sometimes it might seem that way) or a single foot.

God, in his wisdom, has created us with different body parts for different tasks. Paul tells us that the foot can’t say to the hand, “I don’t need you.” The hand can’t say to the foot, “You aren’t important.” The body needs different parts to fulfill the task. Each part has strengths. Each part has weaknesses. Together, the parts form a great effective team.

Great Teams

Great teams understand the strengths and weaknesses of the individual players. Great teams understand that they need each other. While we might focus on a basketball point guard, a football quarterback, or a soccer forward, individuals can’t succeed without the other players. On a team, the players need each other. On a team, everyone is important.

We need each other too. Nobody is good at everything but everyone has something to offer. Paul writes that God, through the Holy Spirit, gives us spiritual gifts. Some may be tempted to say that one gift is better than another, but Paul says that isn’t the case. There are no unimportant gifts.

God has assembled the parts so that we might be able to fulfill his mission.

Since no one is good at everything but everyone is good at something, our task is to come together, allowing God to assemble us as he desires. Some of us are good at connecting with people, some are good at teaching, at speaking, praying, or seeing needs and jumping in to help.

Since no one is good at everything and everyone is good at something, we need each other. The part you play is an important one. Without you, we will never be able to fulfill God’s mission.

Playing Your Part

So, what is your next step? What are you good at? Do you know? If not, perhaps your next step is to discover your gifts and passions. If you are ready to take that step, let me know. I’d love to help!

Perhaps you know what your gifts are and what you are good at. Perhaps your next step is to find a place, jump in, and help the other teammates fulfill God’s mission!

Peace, David.

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The Amazing Life
The Amazing Life

David Mullens • May 30, 2019

Pastor's June Newsletter Article - Amazing Race Part 2

Last month I shared a few life lessons I learned through the Amazing Race:

1) Nobody is Good at Everything

2) Not Everything is Amazing.

Here is another one:

Lesson Three - The Joy of Now.

Since the prize for winning the Amazing Race is a million dollars, many participants focus on what winning the money will mean for their lives. Money has always been a strong motivator and for most of the teams, they have their eyes fixed on the funds. When they struggle with a task, they may say, "Remember, this is for a million dollars." The thought of winning a million dollars gives them a reason to give the task all their energy.

Racers will even tell taxi drivers, "Drive faster. We are in a race for a million dollars" thinking it will motivate the taxi drivers. Of course, the taxi driver won't be winning a million dollars. Even though his passengers may win the money, the taxi driver only gets the fare and, hopefully, a tip. I always wonder how much the taxi driver is motivated to break local traffic laws because those riding in the cab are in a race for a million dollars.

Surprisingly, not everyone on the Amazing Race is focused on the money. One participant's main motivation didn't seem to be the money. As a Ph.D. student, she wasn't rich. I'm sure she would have loved to win the million dollars, but the money didn't seem to be her main motivation. Nevertheless, instead of focusing on money, she focused on the experience of traveling around the world and how her experience on the Race brought her joy.

At the end of each leg of the race, she would literally run around in circles amazed and excited at where she found herself. While many of the racers focused on the future potential of winning a million dollars, her eyes were fixed on the incredible now never losing sight of the amazing world she found herself in.

She understood how fortunate she was. By seeing the joy of now, she didn't need to focus on the money. Of course, the money would be great, but she knew her experience was worth even more. She didn't need to win because, in her mind, she already had.

How different would life be if instead of focusing on what we have or what we hope to get, we see how amazing life is? Getting caught up in future goals may cause us to miss the gift of now. How many parents have taken on extra work in order to buy the best things for their kids, only to discover their kids really wanted them more than anything else? How many couples have strained and toiled trying to get everything they dreamed of only to find they forfeited everything that truly mattered?

When we go through tough times, life may not look all that amazing. Our challenges seem bigger than life itself. Maya taught me that it is possible to see beyond my challenges. She taught me that if I stop and take time to look around, I might be amazed at what I see. Even in the midst of challenges, God blesses and God loves. God is not absent in the good times and he certainly isn't absent during bad times.

Who knows? If we choose to strive less, take time to stop, look around, and appreciate God's handiwork and blessings, we too may realize how amazing life truly is and how blessed we are.

May you find joy on this Amazing Race!



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Amazing Race Life Lessons
Amazing Race Life Lessons

David Mullens • May 01, 2019

Amazing Life Lessons

I've mentioned that my wife and I are watching old seasons of the Amazing Race. Since Season 31 of the Amazing Race is beginning, I thought I'd share what some “Amazing Life Lessons” I’ve learned by watching the show. I’ve learned so much, that I plan on continuing this list through the summer.

Lesson One: Nobody is Good at Everything

There are people who are blessed with strength, wisdom, speed, and qualities that make them perfect contestants for the Amazing Race. They have skills, abilities, and confidence. They KNOW that they will win, quite simply, because they are better than everyone else!

Their confidence grows stacking up win after win after win. They cruise through the tasks with barely breaking a sweat. They are confident for good reason. They are that good...and they know it!

Surprisingly, they would eventually run into a task or two or three where they would struggle and not do well. I hate to admit how I enjoyed watching them struggle. “Welcome to my world,” I would think, “where things don’t come easy and things are hard.” I would sit back as their confidence waned and they struggled just to not be eliminated.

The struggle was humbling, resulting in a new appreciation for the other competitors and the difficulty of the race. Their confidence was still alive but void of arrogance. No longer in the Superman or Superwoman role, they would realize how important and needed their teammate was. Such struggles taught them how much they needed others.

Good teams realize no one is good at everything. Some team members are good at physical tasks, some at mental tasks, some are good at directions. No one is good at everything. Even those team members who have a lot of strengths end up running into some task they aren’t good at.

Contestants who work together as teams are fun to watch. Entering the race as a team rather than individuals, they would maximize their strengths while managing their weaknesses, becoming more than the sum of their parts.

It’s unfortunate that so many neglect the power of teams and community. Instead of connecting with others, we may attempt to live life on our own. We may do well in most situations but there’s always something that will knock us down. The question is when life knocks us down, is there someone nearby who can pick us up?

The Amazing Life lesson: Find team members! Don’t try to do it alone. Ask for help. Life was not meant to be lived alone. Connect to others through worship and service. Those we connect with in worship and service are there for us. They love and care for us and pick us up when we need that. We don’t have to go at life alone. Let’s do life together!

Lesson Two: Not Everything is Amazing.

Even though the name of the show is the “Amazing” Race, some things are not amazing. Usually at some point during a leg of the race, some competitor will utter my favorite Amazing Race quote: “This is ridiculous.” I love it! I watch for it. I know it will happen!

While almost everyone who has been on the show talks about the amazing time, the beauty of everything, and the fantastic opportunity they had to visit multiple countries and have wonderful experiences, not everything was amazing or even fun. Tasks were hard and frustrating. Tears were shed. Sometimes they wanted to quit. Some participants didn't think they could do what they needed to do. They may have even wanted to quit.

Of all the seasons I’ve watched, I only remember one team quitting. The Race isn't about quitting, rather, it is about digging deep within and finding the strength to continue even when you don't think you can. You may not complete the Amazing Race by winning, but quitting doesn't usually happen. Everyone wants to end the race by giving their all.

At the end of the race, when contestants look back, they are able to appreciate their experiences. While they may not have been able to see how amazing things were as they were going through them, when they look back and consider everything they did and experienced, they understood how amazing it all was. What a great lesson for life!

Amazing Life Lesson: Not everything is amazing, including life! Some things are hard. We may want to give up and quit. Don't do it. Never quit. Never give up. God is faithful and if we are able to hang on we can discover just how amazing this life truly is. Our story isn't over. When we get to the end of the race, I hope we can all look back and say, "Wow. That was amazing!"



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Joy of the Lord
Joy of the Lord

David Mullens • April 01, 2019

As a kid, I remember singing the song "The Joy of the Lord is my Strength." As far as I can remember, that was the whole song. We would sing that same line over and over again. I've since discovered there are other lyrics and, if you really want to, it's easy to create more.


We could use that joy today. Some researchers and surveys suggest that America and other developed countries are not very happy. Even though we are the richest people ever to walk the face of the earth and have more opportunity and resources than ever before, we continue to get more and more depressed. All of the stuff we have doesn't bring us the joy of that simple childhood song.


While singing at VBS, I was unaware that the phrase, "The Joy of the Lord is your strength" is from the book of Nehemiah. For over 100 years the walls of Jerusalem were in disrepair. God sent Nehemiah to lead the people to repair the walls. In 52 days the wall was finished and the people of Jerusalem gathered to thank God and worship. Included in the worship was a six or seven hour reading of the law. You read that right. For six or seven hours people stood as the law was read.


As Ezra read, people started crying and weeping. Why did they cry? Perhaps standing for six or seven hours had something to do with it! I doubt it though. It could have been that hearing the requirements of the law reminded them how far they were from fulfilling the law. They may have been weeping because they saw God's goodness in light of their sin.


As they wept, Nehemiah told them, "Go and enjoy choice food and sweet drinks, and send some to those who have nothing prepared. This day is holy to our Lord. Do not grieve, for the joy of the Lord is your strength.” (8:10) Nehemiah let the people know that this was a day to celebrate the goodness of God! Even though they knew they had broken the law, God's grace could fill them with joy and that joy would be their strength.


What might Nehemiah tell us today?


Maybe he would tell us the joy of the Lord is still our strength. While there are many things that can steal our happiness, the joy of the Lord can strengthen us. Sadly, this may not normally be the case.


What prevents us from having the joy of the Lord?


Could it be that we have lost God's joy because we believe that joy is found in other places? By pursuing wealth, pleasure, power, progress, success, comfort, and security have we actually forfeited what truly brings joy?


The joy of the Lord can still be our strength. As we take steps toward Jesus, deepening our discipleship and relationship with God, joy takes root and bursts forth. In God, through Jesus, we find Joy (with a capital J)!


Easter reminds us that death has been defeated and all things are new. Through him, we discover the Joy that only pursuing Jesus brings. May the Joy of Jesus and the Joy of Easter truly be your strength!





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If You Continue
If You Continue

David Mullens • February 27, 2019

A few weeks ago, the text for Sunday included John 8:31-32, "If you continue in my word, you are truly my disciples; and you will know the truth and the truth will set you free." I've had a hard time getting Jesus' statement out of my mind. As I look to Lent (which begins with Ash Wednesday on March 6th), I invite you to reflect on Jesus' words.

If you remember, Jesus had just told the religious leaders, "you will die in your sins unless you believe that I am he" (John 8:29). Then we learn that many believed in him while he was talking (verse 30).

I would think that Jesus would be excited about his listeners believing in him. I wouldn't have been surprised if he stopped and thanked God for these new believers. He could have celebrated right there on the spot.

Verse 31 and 32 doesn't seem like much of a celebration. Instead, Jesus told the new believers that if they continued in his word, they would truly be his disciples. It seems to me that Jesus sees a vast difference between believers and disciples.

From time to time in John's Gospel, we read of people believing in Jesus. Sometimes this is after he has performed some miracle. After he fed the five thousand in the wilderness, people even wanted to make him king! Later, those same folks walked away because they couldn't take what he was saying. Seems like there is a big difference between believers and disciples.

Believers have self as the focus:

Those who believed in Jesus did so because they wanted what Jesus could provide. Perhaps it was healing or being fed. The believers had their needs met by Jesus and so believed in him. When things got tough or Jesus said something they didn't like, they left (See John 6:66).

Disciples focus on the mission of God:

Disciples, on the other hand, focus on God and God's kingdom. The reason why Jesus’ words were so important was because Jesus was in the habit of declaring what he heard from the Father (John 8:26). Disciples don't leave when things get tough or the word of God becomes hard (John 6:67-68). Instead, they double down on Jesus' word and dive deeper. As they do, they encounter the truth about themselves, God, what abundant life is, and how they fit into the mission of God. In discovering truth, they are free to live the abundant life Jesus came to give (John 10:10).

You are invited to discipleship! Lent invites us to deepen our disciples and create room in our lives for God's word.

There are many different practices you can do for Lent; focused prayer, fasting a favorite food or treat, or spending time in the Bible. During this Lent, I invite you to reflect on these words of Jesus and actively make room in your life for his word through intentional spiritual practices.

One practice you are invited to enter into is the practice to serve. There will be opportunities to serve through "Hey Neighbor" or perhaps serve the community through any of the wonderful local helping organizations.

During this time of Lent, you are invited to continue in Jesus word and truly be his disciple. May you live in his love and presence.



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What the World Needs Now....
What the World Needs Now....

David Mullens • January 31, 2019

Valentine's Day is coming! That day has been set aside so we can show our love to others. Over the years, I've learned a lot of about love. Some of what I've learned about love comes from songs on the radio. I thought I'd invite you to attempt to figure out the name of the song from what I've learned:

1) The Beatles told me that all I needed was love. (That was an easy one).

2) From Captain and Tennille, I learned of the staying power of love.

3) I discovered that Meat Loaf would do almost anything for love, but some things were off the table.  

4) Elvis let me know the overwhelming power of love.

5) The Partridge family reminded me that sometimes I might not be too sure about love.

6) When feeling unloved, Dean Martin let me know that no matter who you are, somebody loves you.

7) Tina Turner asked an important question about where love fit.

8) Sometimes love doesn't work out and Paul Simon taught me that there are many ways to leave someone you once loved.

9) Wings (Paul McCartney) let me know that some of these songs are just plain silly.

10)  Air Supply suggested that sometimes you have no love left to give.

Be the first one to email me the correct answers at and you may get some kind of prize! (Don't expect too much. I once gave out a coconut as a prize to a youth group member).

Through the years, there have been a lot of songs about love. I shudder to think that some of what I believe and think about love has been formed and informed by "silly" love songs. There are much better ways to learn about what love really is.

Scripture paints a beautiful picture of love. Answering Tina Turner's question about love, Scripture responds "love is the center of everything!"

Paul tells us that "love never ends" (1 Cor 13:8). Don't pass over his statement too quickly. Paul tells us that while everything else ends. Love remains.

If love is all that remains, why do we spend so much time focusing on those things that will end up passing away? Why spend our time, energy, and resources on things which are temporary? What should we give up, so we might focus on love?

As disciples, we seek to become people of love. The goal of a disciple of Jesus is to love others like Jesus has loved us (John 13:34). Jesus' love is abundant, unconditional, and giving. While that's a tall order, we are not alone. Jesus, through his Spirit, empowers us to love as he loves! We won't always get it right, but we continue to be perfected in love through Jesus' presence and power.

As we gather together as a community of love, we build up a "Love Shack" where others can come and experience the "Power of Love" through Jesus so they might get "Lost in Love", "Feel the Love Tonight", and every other night until they come face to face with the One who is the source of love! (arg...more love songs.)

May you be wrapped in the love of God through Jesus and share that love!



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Attention! 2019 is Here!
Attention! 2019 is Here!

David Mullens • January 01, 2019

You've made it. You've arrived.

Some of you never thought you'd make it to 2019, but you did. Great job! You can celebrate!

Even though it's a new year full of opportunities, I'm not going to mention resolutions. I've done that way too many times in the past.

Most people never keep their resolutions. If you made it through last year keeping the resolutions you made, you are one of the few. Most people don't even make it past January with unbroken resolutions.

So, I'm not going to suggest getting the old exercise bike out, purchasing a new gym membership, or throwing out all the food you love but know isn't good for you. I'm not going to give you a reading plan or encourage you to learn a new skill or hobby. No. Those are actions of resolutions.

Instead, I'm going to encourage you to ask a question. It's a simple question, but you'll have to pay attention.

I remember one person quipping, "I can't afford to pay attention." Some of us may feel that way. With all the things vying for our attention we may believe we simply can't pay attention. Not really. But what we pay attention to determines more of our lives than what we might believe.

We are formed by what we focus on and what we pay attention to.

When I pay attention to social media, I may become envious, jealous, or dissatisfied with my life. Research suggests we can even become depressed. If I focus my attention on what's wrong with my neighbors, my city, my church, and all that isn't right with the world and my life, I may become cynical. If I focus on what I don't have, I may become ungrateful and unappreciative and miss the joy coming from gratitude.

If I don't pay attention to what I pay attention to, well, it's hard telling where I will end up.

So, I'm not suggesting resolutions. Instead, I'm inviting you to pay attention to what you pay attention to. What has your focus? What has your attention? But those questions aren't THE question I want you to ask in 2019. Those questions are questions of discovery and realization. Instead, I hope you will ask a question of transformation.

The question I'm encouraging you to ask yourself is, "God, what do YOU want me to pay attention to?"  You may find some insight from Paul in Philippians 4 (I'll let you look that up yourself). Make sure to pay attention to what he says!

So, no resolutions this year. Instead, a question that just might transform your year and life.



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Our Amazing Race!
Our Amazing Race!

David Mullens • November 27, 2018

My wife and I have been watching old seasons of “The Amazing Race.” We started with season 1 and are now on season 12! Only 18 more seasons! 


When you watch that many seasons you notice things. I've noticed that one of the most used phrases by contestants on The Amazing Race is "This is ridiculous.” This phrase is muttered over and over again usually during some difficult task, such as looking for a needle in a haystack, slogging through mud, pushing some item up hill, or perhaps balancing something on their heads. The participant, having trouble with the task, in frustration says, “This is ridiculous. I’ve never done anything this hard” or something similar. 


Another very popular phrase usually comes at the end of the race whether teams lose or win. As they stand on the mat after finishing the leg, look at the host, Phil, and exclaim, "This was amazing!” The contestants then share how amazing their experience was and appreciation to have had the opportunity to see the world and be part of the competition.  


These two phrases, “This is ridiculous” and “That was amazing”, stand in contrast with each other. One reveals frustration, the other joy. One shows struggle, the other reflection. When teams are knee deep in mud or cold from the snow or rain, they lose sight of the wonder of being on the Amazing Race. Once the race is over they realize how special and wonderful it all was. 


I wonder if it is possible to be on the Amazing Race and not lose perspective. I wonder if it is possible to realize how amazing it is while trudging through difficult tasks. How would participants perspective change if they, even during the most daunting task, looked around, saw the beautiful scenery, and proclaimed, "This is all amazing!"? 


I wonder if realizing how amazing the race is even when facing "ridiculous" challenges would transform those challenges. I wonder if it is possible for the sense of amazement to redefine frustrating tasks and setbacks.  


I know what it is like to lose perspective. "This is ridiculous" is one of my go to phrases. There are times I believe tasks should be easier than what they are. I make plans that don't work out. I get stuck in traffic. I have a few minutes to do something and am met with tangled cords or can't find a tool I need. Sometimes I make plans and forget to account for something. Whether I’m stuck in traffic, attempting a difficult task, or just frustrated with how things are, I’ll bemoan my situation and may even say, "This is ridiculous". 


When the teams on Amazing Race focus on how "ridiculous" something is, they lose perspective of how amazing it all really is! Every time I say "This is ridiculous" I lose sight of how amazing life is. Amazing Race contestants say "this is ridiculous" during the race. When the race is over and they reflect on their experience they realize it was amazing. I wonder, when it is all over, when I’m finally sent to my permanent home, if I’ll look back and say…”that was amazing.” Perhaps it is hard to see how amazing life is when we are “in the moment of frustrations” Perhaps it is hard to know how precious and amazing life is unless we take time to really look around and reflect. 


Reflection brings perspective.  


We don’t have to go on TV to be on an Amazing Race. We are on it right now. What would happen if we could look up from all the frustrating and difficult things in life and realize, “Wow. This IS amazing”? What would happen if we stopped and prayed, thanking God for the opportunity to be on such an amazing journey? 


Advent can be a time when we become so focused on the task at hand that we miss out on the amazing season we are experiencing. We get caught up in the trees, tinsel, and gifts, while missing the beauty of a loving God coming into our world. We become frustrated untangling the lights and forget God has shined the light of his love into our lives! 


May you realize how amazing this season is and how amazing this race you are on is before it's over. May you not miss this Amazing Advent and Christmas! Celebrate! 






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